Heart'n'Soul

Friday, August 8, 2008

Heart of Matters of Heart

You are so genuine
You are so loving
You are so caring
You are so understanding
You are everything I could ask for
We are so compatible and you are such a great company

It’s so easy to fall in love with someone like you, But I can’t, cuz I DON’T love you

What a pity and What an Irony!!! But it all so true... cuz in matters of heart...its really Black or white. You can neither force someone to love you. Nor can you force someone not to love you. And funnily enough, we can’t even force OURSELVES to fall in or out of love with someone. You either do or you don’t.

Love, I believe is the largest paradox - the most delightful and yet the most agonizing thing in the world. It’s like this quote I read somewhere -“Love is a perky elf dancing a merry little jig and then suddenly he turns on you with a miniature machine gun”.

If you have it, you don need anything else. If you don’t have it, nothing else matters.

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posted by Heart'n'Soul at 1:31 AM

59 Comments:

Hmmmmmmmm
Stop thinkin too much
Stop being such an "arse"
I LOVE YOU na :)

August 8, 2008 at 2:13 AM  

@Simran
I know you do...lol...hope ur hubby's not turnin green...hehehe

Thnks darlin n this is like ur Hatrick first comment...keep it goin baybah!!!

August 8, 2008 at 2:18 AM  

So touching!

Indeed,love can never be forced.And love is not love if it is not for the sake of love itself.

*Hugs*

P.S. Yup the pic is really hot! :)

August 8, 2008 at 5:11 AM  

Such a great post sweetz and u wrote it so beautifully! Straight to the point, crisp and clear. Love how u laid it out all so neatly.


And I love that quote where Love is being compared to an elf's dance and then how it all can turn into a bloody mess.

And like u said, in Love matters, it's either black or white..no shaded of grey there..and yes we can FALL in love easily but yet not LOVE someone. So true!

As I grow older and older, I find it so hard to fall/be in love...I dunno why...mebbe Im realising that its all an illusion...I never found that kind of love where it's so strong and stable...all my loves have been short-term and fake..


Keshi.

August 8, 2008 at 5:29 AM  

**no SHADES of grey

sorry abt my typos :)

Keshi.

August 8, 2008 at 5:29 AM  

**the most delightful and yet the most agonizing thing in the world.
yupp I think it depends on our situation that luv is agonizing or delightful. Those who r cheated in luv they feel the agony and those who find their love they feel delighted.
All is abt wat we r going thru and not wat reality is.

August 8, 2008 at 8:17 AM  

Loved your blog... !! Love is strange... just follow your heart but dont lose your respect..

Love always
Stuti

August 8, 2008 at 11:21 AM  

Love. Sigh!
I feel its over-rated and yet something we cannot do without.

August 8, 2008 at 12:43 PM  

I wanna fall in love...
Yes fall in love...
Got my point ?
ha ha ha...
Because :
Failures are the root to success...
ha ha ha...
:)

August 8, 2008 at 1:03 PM  

miniature gun? did u just say, a 'miniature' gun? gosh.. dont u think its being underestimated? :P

the pic's real good. And your latest one on your profile is the bestest! :) Miss. gorgeous smile!

August 8, 2008 at 1:54 PM  

Divs....u wil nvr stp bng idlstc bout thngs in ur lfe rte?
Stop ovrrtng love...
And wt all dscrptn u gve, if a sum1 is all ths n stll 1 cnt fll in luv with tht prson, then its thr loss...tht prson is eithr blind or totly mssd up in thr mind

And man whn did u strt lookin like tht...ur rdrs r rite, thts a ht pic n a cute smile

August 8, 2008 at 2:29 PM  

i cudnt have agreed with you more!!
each n everyword in dat post is soo true!

August 8, 2008 at 3:05 PM  

Just loved this post ... first timer here..

you couldnt have possibly expressed it better.. its like my own story ..

beautiful!

August 8, 2008 at 3:08 PM  

@Keshi - some say its an illusion, some say its over rated...i don know wt it

exactly is, but all i know and say is that if its reciprocated, it makes it all

worthwhile....and I guess its that fear of either not being able to reciprocate it

with the same intensity or the fear of being rejected that stops us from letting us

freely fall in love... we restrict ourselves

At the same time hunny, its better that you do, cuz if you dont....the hurt that

follows is even worse. I hope we r blessed enough to find true love and are mature

enough to identify and keep it....its not difficult to love sum1 or find sum1 who

loves you but its damn hard to find someone who loves you back for the rite reasons.

August 8, 2008 at 4:47 PM  

@Priya - hmmmm....reality is an illusion, so somtimes dun know wt to bel and wt not too....thnks :)

August 8, 2008 at 4:47 PM  

@Stu - thnks, glad you liked it....but love is bloddy blind honey, when in love that person seems worth all the pain and emotional investment.

August 8, 2008 at 4:47 PM  

@Solitare - hey bang on...overrated n still imperative...its like i said...u don have it...nthn cn make ya happy. but if u hv the rite prsn in ur life, well nthn else mttrs

August 8, 2008 at 4:48 PM  

@Hobo - wt a persectve...lol
but on a serious note, how many failures before u give up...emotional investment sucks if its not returned!!!

August 8, 2008 at 4:51 PM  

@Usha - lol...miniature cuz u don know wt hit u but it hits you so quick n bad tht sumtimes one dosn even recover
Hey and thnks, only my sis thinks i look like a retard here....lol

August 8, 2008 at 4:51 PM  

@Attaboy - so you really been readin my blog....how come u dropped by...lol...suraj kahan se nikla hai aaj???

Over rated, idealistic... too much in love with the idea of it....etc etc etc
I still remeber the conversation dear...and yes my views are still the same!!!

***tht prson is eithr blind or totly mssd up in thr mind
I don know wt to say to tht... but this happens all the time dosn it?

Well i grew up buddy...thts y i look diff...but m sure u thinkin my minds still the same :p ... thnks for the compliment, especially cuz u r such a kanjoos at tht

August 8, 2008 at 4:51 PM  

@Gunj - thnks Gunj...not everyone is agreeing though :)

@Rahul - thnks for droppin by n welcome :)
Own story you say??? wud love to know ... so which one are you...the one whos the best or the one who cant fall in love???

August 8, 2008 at 4:51 PM  

O my dalin div...u wnt evr gt it...y do u need to defend n be d savr uv d mst ridicls ppl on ths erth

the dscrptn u gv is uv a gr8 prsn...i mnt tht if 1 cnt fll in luv wid em, thn its cuz thy cnt fll in luv...

N its also nt bout luv, d prsn u luv mst b wrth it...els as u discvr tht prsn mor n the mor u need to adjst, the mr the wrng chice wil hrt...so y nt fll in luv wid sum1 whos gorgs inside!!! exctly like u wrte...

initially u may be ok, bt ltr on the choice of a wrng prsn wil haunt u all ur life...gotta chose the rite prsn n thts all tht mttrs

August 8, 2008 at 4:58 PM  

@Attaboy - firstly stop using my Laptop...make ur own login n with the length of ur comment i think u can start your own blog...lol

and well, to wt u said....i don know wt to say except tht evryone is different...cnt force other to think like u rite?

so take a chill pill and stop fightng with me please!!!

August 8, 2008 at 5:00 PM  

m nt fitin D
tryn 2 shw u d rl trth
u r fitin :p
u dun wnna cum outta ur IDEAL wrld

August 8, 2008 at 5:05 PM  

@Attaboy

Stop buggin me man...n DONT USE MY LAPPY....gonna kill u if u do it again!!!! GRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR

N ok ok i give up...m not fitin with you over this...its a difference of opinion and lets end it here cuz none of us is goin to change it :P

August 8, 2008 at 5:06 PM  

I didn't read your post yet! I will be back for a second read! Your pic still has me captivated! Whoa! You are looking hot! =D

August 8, 2008 at 5:27 PM  

Crisp and clear!


Loved it! :)
And your pikcha..woo..real goood!

August 8, 2008 at 6:17 PM  

Love , is smthing I kno, still i dunno ;)

#I guess, dere's some wierd connection between my last post n urs..

August 8, 2008 at 8:34 PM  

as general eisenhower said... love is strange..ur damned if u have it...damned if u dont..

August 8, 2008 at 10:36 PM  

*sigh*

why did I read this post..:p
I am sad now... :(

and oh..I agree with the machine gun part.. ;)

great expression..btw..:)

stumbled..!

August 9, 2008 at 12:21 AM  

hmm
how can u put some many comments on ur own blog :P
well written

August 9, 2008 at 12:46 AM  

@ Ani - yeah, do read n lemme know ur views
n thnks...lol...hots a new word to my ears but i shll accpt n not complain.....like jane wud say...Lurrrving it :)

August 9, 2008 at 1:00 AM  

@Ayushi - Thnks....for likein the blog as well as the pic...whr u been, missu

@Debashish - whn u know exactly wt it is, lemme know....we can try defining it for others thn...lol

@Paratrooper - yeah true....but this means we r all damned...lol
welcome n thnks for droppin by

August 9, 2008 at 1:00 AM  

@Zubin - m sorry if i made u sad....wsnt my intention to make neone sad for tht matter :(
thnks for droppin by :)

@Fali - not comments darling, replies...just like this on
Thnks for the appreciation

August 9, 2008 at 1:00 AM  

@Samby
missed ya man
glad to see u back :)

August 9, 2008 at 2:11 AM  

na na...not real wala...sad...:p

just a hard feeling..I feel like this even when I watch those romantic cliche movies.. :D

In fact I saw a few funny videos and am over with it.. ^-^

and..hey you are blogrolled too.. :)

P.S: Love the look of your blog..Its unique.. :)

August 9, 2008 at 2:23 AM  

true...everything u said is so true...


**....its not difficult to love sum1 or find sum1 who
loves you but its damn hard to find someone who loves you back for the rite reasons.


thats right! And thats why Im still single. :) And even if I never find someone like that, Im still ok with it. Cos its better to be single than be with someone for the wrong reasons.

ouchhhh my knee! lol! I just hit it on the desk...trut love must hurt like that too oyeah!


Keshi.

August 9, 2008 at 6:05 AM  

lol,everything has love :)

nice post ;P

August 9, 2008 at 10:08 AM  

reallllly hawttttttttttttt pic out there.. ya're a beauty.. silent or otherwise..

matters of the heart, at teh end of the day are black or white..
but you know how we go meddling with it: by tried to add on the colors, make a messy myriad of colors, n then make it grey n blotted n friggyn, botch up teh entire thing!

i loveddd teh heart picture; and i reallly loved the quote.. how trueeeeeee!!
love ya bebeo..
mwuahhh n hugs :*

August 9, 2008 at 12:52 PM  

No reply for me? :(

Anyways,have a nice weekend!

August 9, 2008 at 2:08 PM  

If ther is no love, start loving yourself and the beauty of it spreads everywhere.

August 9, 2008 at 9:11 PM  

:-)

August 10, 2008 at 12:08 AM  

@Sam = OMG....but trust me i had typed the response...guess it din go thru n i m a lil lost ths days so looks like din notice...but really girl...so sowwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwy

Will tell u y m lst soon...my nxt post shll lt u know

n yeah, thnks for the wishes, after the last weekend tht i had...i really need weekend wishes

Hugz, Muaz, n sorrrrrrry again!!!
Damn how cud i!!!!

August 10, 2008 at 3:43 AM  

@Zubin - i know, sumtimes whn my frnds r talkin n tryin to pull me outta my little idea world i live in...i get tht feelin!!!

n ditto with the movies...

Thnks 4 the blogroll :)

August 10, 2008 at 3:53 AM  

@Keshi - girl, stop exertin urself, u need rest...TC plz

Single??? so many men will be jumpin with joy rite now...lol

@Vishesh - din get ur comment!!!
but thnks for droppin by :)

August 10, 2008 at 3:53 AM  

@Jane - HAWTTTT....thnks...lol....m all smilin n shy...heeeeeeeeeeeeeee!!!
Yeah so true....but itna try marne ke baad bhi saala fall flat on the face...lol

August 10, 2008 at 3:53 AM  

@Priya - thnks for droppin by...
And well yeah hav hrd tht a lot of times, but whn u love sum1 n its nt reciprocated...can be a a roamntic thing or even just frndshp...wt do u do...how do u continue to keep lovin urself whn the one u love/want/need dosn wan u at all!!! or the one frind u always had moves on!!!

Tricky business this thing called love is :)

August 10, 2008 at 3:54 AM  

oh! well i just meant that everything in the universe is love :)

August 10, 2008 at 11:20 AM  

Awwwwwww,it's ok sweetie!I thought it was silly to ask phir bhi just pucha,in case you had forgotten.Whatever the reason,I hope you get back on track asap :)

Take good care dear.Loads of love & hugs!Muaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaah

August 10, 2008 at 11:28 AM  

Great post!!
***If you have it, you don need anything else. If you don’t have it, nothing else matters.

Very true!!!

'N Yah we can't force ourself to love someone LOL
it's better to live with someone who loves you than someone whom you love, isn't it?

August 10, 2008 at 11:33 AM  

@Vishesh - oh okie...lol

@Sameera - thnkuuuuu girl :)
haan m a lil better now.lotsa shoppin n m healed...lol

August 10, 2008 at 11:42 PM  

@Aneesh - wt u say is rite n is 1 pc of advice tht evryone gives....me too believes in it...but its also a little unfair cuz u will get all the love in the world but wt bout the one who loves u???

August 10, 2008 at 11:43 PM  

Got to agree with the very first comment..."stop thinking too much"...

Remember the middle finger?

August 11, 2008 at 2:56 AM  

And I think I should ask you this again...why am I Venky Monkey??

August 11, 2008 at 2:57 AM  

Im single yes but where r those MEN? lol!

Keshi.

August 11, 2008 at 7:47 AM  

@ Venky - yes sir...I do remeber tht...thnks thnks :)
And venky monkey cuz i felt like...its so cute na...LOL...itna pyaar mein sabko nahi jatati u see :P

@Keshi - he he he...if u find out where those MEN are, lemme knw too...till thn cheers to singlehood.

August 11, 2008 at 2:56 PM  

I never give up.
Love is endless...

August 11, 2008 at 4:33 PM  

And I say where are them women??!!??

Arrrrrr...

Hello there Keshi ;-)
*cheeky grin*

August 11, 2008 at 9:47 PM  

The best way to describe Love is with or without you... :)

Neither can you live with it, nor can you live without it!

August 12, 2008 at 5:58 AM  

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